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I am not very good at tutorials, but I tried. ;u;


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The House of Mystery - Bernie Wrightson

What a dead head.

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Protest, BBQ, Voter Reg, Music— community is alive and well in Ferguson. #staywoke #insolidarity #farfromover

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  • Him, Aug 19: You are not attractive at all. Blurr looking, plus sucks with you fuck up explaination about yourself.
  • Me, Aug 19: Yeah, and you're the loser who wastes his time insulting women on the Internet.
  • Him, Aug 19: No, i dont. You are the one who wastes her time hopping a prince seduce you. Haha
  • Me, Aug 19: Aw yer cute. The internet is gonna have a great time laughing at you when I post this conversation publicly!
  • Him, Aug 20: Haha. Whatever looser..
  • Him, Aug 20: Hey.. lack of idea?? Haha
  • Him, Aug 23: Hi, miss looser. Still shitting around here? Hahahax.
  • Him, Sept 2: Looser! Fuck up yourself. Playing your pussy now? Hahaha. Get out of here bloody hell!
  • Me: *reports to OKCupid* This user has been sending me harassing and abusive messages. I opted not to block him and he has escalated his abuse. Though I would ordinarily find this amusing, I suspect I am not his only target.
  • Moral of the Story for Women: No matter how nice you are, or how you pretend that this isn't a problem, someone out there has decided to make you a target for their shitty, abusive, misogynist behaviour. You'll be shamed just for being on a dating website. Also, oddly, men will hate you for masturbating.
  • Moral of the Story for Men: Teach your sons better.


the one TRUE secret to a great sex life

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Charda Gregory abducted, humiliated, violated, restrained, scalped and tortured. 
If this were reversed, with black police officers who were sworn to uphold peace and justice but instead were documented victimizing a white woman (who was already a victim), this news would have trumped the Olympics!

Truncated version: drugged at a party, abducted to a motel, wakes up during unwanted sexual violation in a motel room full of strangers, fights like hell to escape, motel employee calls the authorities, she gets arrested for destroying motel property and it just gets worst from there. 

Every officer who participated in it and even those who witnessed it and did nothing should be punished but instead they just fired the woman?
No rape kit, no police report on the people inside the motel room, no investigation of her claims, no accountability for missing motel entry records, no video from the motel but she gets detained for fourteen days?

(Btw, when did your tax dollars begin purchasing Abu Ghraib type water boarding chairs?)

I get angrier and angrier everyday when I see things like this.

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White women who talk about men with frail and delicate egos derailing posts with “not all men” but be the first ones to jump on a post meant to uplift black women and girls with “the same for white girls :) :) :)”

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Im fucking sick of hearing these stories about black people getting killed & harassed by white police officers. I say we ban together as one big black gang & take over. Just like the white man did the natives & everybody else.

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"Don’t wear a hoodie if you don’t want to be mistaken for a criminal and shot."

"Don’t get drunk at a party if you don’t want to be sexually assaulted."

"Don’t argue with a cop if you don’t want to get killed."

"Don’t walk home by yourself if you don’t want to get raped."

Victim blaming 101: Everyone should live in fear from ever doing anything.

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want to fix you
save you
or fuck you

I can’t be fixed
and I don’t care to be saved

Jeanann Verlee, Men (via cactuslungs)

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No matter what size, you can be loved. No matter WHAT, you can and will be loved. You deserve love.

This is my boyfriend and I. Purest form. It’s hard to share this due to my insecurities, but I want this to be a boost of hope or whatever it may lay under, for those believing love cannot be for them unless they’re a certain way.

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