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  • being a policeperson is no guarantee of deserving respect. 
  • cruelty, lies, malice, torture, murder, theft, racism, rape, misogyny and any other horrid act cannot be ignored or pardoned - especially when committed by a police person


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-circa 1900-



most of my Saturday was spent looking up stuff about Bina48.
BINA48 is a project of Terasem Movement, Incorporated (TMI)[5] and is designed to test whether a person’s consciousness can be downloaded into a non-biological or nanotechnological body after combining detailed data about a person through the use of future consciousness software

A lesbian of color (who is married to a trans woman) becomes the model for an ultra advanced AI system.
This is huge.

Other links…

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So Obama can write a handwritten letter to Joan Rivers’ daughter saying how her mother made him and Michelle laugh (I wonder if this was before or after Joan referred to Michelle as the t-slur) but Obama had no time to call off Ferguson police gassing and shooting…

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Do you have a fetish for pie in the face videos?  What’s better than ONE hot girl with cream pie on her face?  Well, TWO hot girls with cream pie on their faces of course!

Fetish model missingxchild and I throw a cream pie into each other’s face at the same time!  It’s a hot fun messy time!

check out the full clip here:

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My boyfriend’s kitchen… it was like this when he invited me over. NEVER EVER invite someone over, anyone, if your house looks like this. There is a fine line between being messy and…. Well. This! I know I shouldn’t be doing this but if I don’t do it no one will and I eventually end up going home because i get way to overstrung by this shit. I ended up cleaning his entire apartment and O know that’s not ok… We have a extremely intense talk about his behaviour around doing household and stuff and we made the deal then if his house still looks like this the next time i come around I will leave instantly. I helped him out this time but he has to keep this up from now on…

I don’t think this is really in the spirit of UFYH. It’s one thing to be working on one’s own mess or one’s own home. This is something else entirely.

The OP might want to keep this incident in mind, though, when deciding if a mutual living arrangement would work well.



Some of the most beautiful jewelry, crystals, and photographs I have had the pleasure of stumbling upon by the lovely SacraLuna. All photographs found on her Instagram, none of which belong or are taken by me. 


I’ve been following her Instagram for over a year now, and her pieces are phenomenal!

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Omar Khadr, a sixteen year old Guantanamo Bay detainee weeps uncontrollably, clutching at his face and hair as he calls out for his mother to save him from his torment. “Ya Ummi, Ya Ummi (Oh Mother, Oh Mother),” he wails repeatedly, hauntingly with each breath he takes.

The surveillance tapes, released by Khadr’s defence, show him left alone in an interrogation room for a “break” after he tried complaining to CSIS (Canadian Security Intelligence Service) officers about his poor health due to insufficient medical attention. Ignoring his complaints and trying to get him to make false confessions, the officers get frustrated with the sixteen year old’s tears and tell him to get himself together by the time they come back from their break.

“You don’t care about me. Nobody cares about me,” he sobs to them.

The tapes show how the officers manipulated Khadr into thinking that they were helping him because they were also Canadian and how they taunted him with the prospect of home (Canada), (good) food, and familial reunion.

Khadr, a Canadian, was taken into US custody at the age of fifteen, tortured and refused medical attention because he wouldn’t attest to being a member of Al Qaeda, even though he was shot three times in the chest and had shrapnel embedded in his eyes and right shoulder. As a result, Khadr’s left eye is now permanently blind, the vision in his right eye is deteriorating, he develops severe pain in his right shoulder when the temperature drops, and he suffers from extreme nightmares.

He has been incarcerated at Guantanamo Bay since 2002, suffering extremely harsh interrogations and torture (methods), and is now 25 years old.

27 now, and still imprisoned

i’m in complete shock. i’m so nauseous right now. how is this possible? i don’t know what to do w/ this information. i share it because i can’t imagine that anyone else knows about this. the boy has been incarcerated, tortured, and basically maimed allll w/out a trial. my heart hurts :/


Omar is no longer in Guantanamo. Left without options, he pled guilty to war crimes so that he’d be given an eight year sentence and be able to transfer to a prison in Canada. He remains in prison there. His story is absolutely heartbreaking. This was a 15 year old boy who has been described as crying out for his mother, who slept holding a Mickey Mouse book one of his captors gave him. A teenager taken from his family, tortured, humiliated, threatened with rape, and falsely imprisoned for 12 years now. You can help Omar by writing to him, donating for his defense, and signing petitions for him. Please visit to learn more.

(via unculture)


Can’t stop, won’t stop: Protesters in Ferguson rally again, seeking justice for Mike Brown. More than a month and a half after his death, his killer, Darren Wilson, is still a free man. (Pt 2) 

Because it wouldn’t be a protest in Ferguson without fuckery from the police. A driver plowed his car through protesters, grazing several and running over a young boys foot. Beyond taking several hours to transport the boy to the hospital, they took even longer to arrest the motorist. Who did they not wait long to arrest? Two of the protesters who had been documenting the altercation for the world to see. If you’re not angry, you’re not paying attention. #staywoke #farfromover #nojusticenopeace

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I enjoy controlled loneliness. I like wandering around the city alone. I’m not afraid of coming back to an empty flat and lying down in an empty bed. I’m afraid of having no one to miss, of having no one to love.
Kuba Wojewodzki (via creatingaquietmind)

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So apparently consuming blood is illegal in Louisiana

How much blood did people have to drink before it was banned?


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I am Black Excellence tees available now until September 29th

Tees are $25

Tanks are $16

V-Necks are $22.50

all sizes are unisex but tanks run hella big

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Millennial Activist United member  wrists. About 40 mins after being out of jail.

Marks on . We are filing a complaint RIGHT NOW. Documentation. Zip ties were so tight that the Fire Dept had to get called to remove.

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