December 2011
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Compersion version →
(via NOW Toronto, a nice bit of clarification of “compersion”)
Dear Sasha,
I was quite disconcerted with your reply to Desperate Puppy, so much so that I feel compelled to respond.
It was so very uncharacteristic of you, and not at all what I’ve come to expect from this forum. It makes me think that it might not have been you who wrote the reply.
I believe it takes a great deal of...
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Watchkinkythrills:
Sounding with a combination anal hook/cock ring/urethral plug.
(via 4 times peehole sounding - xHamster.com)
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[Kafila] A Modest Proposal for the Castration of...
(via Shuddhabrata Sengupta at Kafila)
Dear Kafila Readers,
Here is a modest proposal to castrate police men and male police officers and security forces personnel in India who come into contact with women in the line of duty. I thought it would be an appropriately thoughtful, and at the same time useful and practical way to end a turbulent year. The context from which this modest proposal...
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sorry, fido
when I go upstairs to let the dog outside because it’s been a few hours, then find that I forgot to let her back in from the yard last time.
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Privilege within communities working to lessen...
sexgenderbody:
Audre Lorde once spoke at a feminist conference, noting that she was the only black lesbian there and one of only two women of color. She was pointing at privilege and exclusion within a group formed to remedy and address privilege and exclusion. In this address, she pointed to the language and organizational structure adopted by feminists to address patriarchy was formed by...
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Challenge Racism and Colonialism
racismfreeontario:
Despite Canada’s reputation as a “multicultural”country, there are profound inequalities among Canadians, as well as between Canadians and Aboriginal Peoples. Our new and innovative Race, Ethnicity and Indigeneity (REI) program - the only one of its kind in Canada - challenges these inequalities by examining how they thrive in our everyday experiences and addressing how they...
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Privilege within communities working to lessen...
Audre Lorde once spoke at a feminist conference, noting that she was the only black lesbian there and one of only two women of color. She was pointing at privilege and exclusion within a group formed to remedy and address privilege and exclusion. In this address, she pointed to the language and organizational structure adopted by feminists to address patriarchy was formed by patriarchy to...
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“when my mouth says “thank you for that wonderful hot sauce orgasm”...”
Christmas in Vancouver's brothels and sex work... →
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Jennifer Allan, founder of Jen’s Kitchen, prepares a sandwich to deliver to sex workers. Photo by David P. Ball.
During the holiday season, there’s a lot of talk about helping the poor and less fortunate. We are often reminded that Christmas is about generosity and giving. And though many make charitable donations or volunteer at this time of the year, we at...
“White queers, including white trans people, are at the LOWEST risk for pretty...”
– DTWPS (via zorascreation)
Truth! Fuck the ‘it gets better’ campaign!
(via kenzmirage)
And? I can’t help but not see the point in pointing this out.
(via mommasgotabrandnewbag)
You’re really fucking rude. If you can’t “see the point”, then…wow. May God have mercy on your blasted soul. (via...
occasionally pensive: our babies are monkeys →
daniellemertina:
Reading a post where someone said that they watched a youtube video of a couple month old black baby and someone in the comment section called the baby a “monkey” has been on my mind way longer than I would have anticipated.
I hear of acts of individualized racism everyday. But this particular…
The top 10 anti-gay foes spend three times as much...
stfuconservatives:
think-progress:
Hate has got some deep pockets.
-Joe
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A Note About Cissexism...
manybothans:
I had a really great pride this year, but I was also troubled by comments I heard over the last week from a lot of people in both the mainstream and radical queer communities. I want to say a few things about cissexism, specifically towards trans women and other MTF spectrum folks.
1) Gay sex does not require genital symmetry.
Most people in the community realize that not all...
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“ignorance of privilege - is privilege”
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seo search term bingo
Our two sites are open to a lot of different conversations, voices and identities. Even with all that variety, some of the search terms that lead people to our sites baffle me to no end. Here are a few of the doozies from today with their bad spelling and offensive language, along with some of my initial responses.
‘how to fuc*** fat women’ - wait…you’re only sure of...
“When your only female character exists to be battered and abused, that is lazy...”
– Monica Byrne.
Zing.
(via mehreenkasana)
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[Usmann Rana] An Open Letter To Marvi Sirmed
(via Usmann Rana)
Respected Ms. Marvi Sirmed,
Let me start this letter by applauding your courage to stand up and defend your beliefs in the face of bullying bigots pervading the talk show scene of Pakistani television channels and discussing issues of importance that are often swept under the carpet, the pretext being issues such as nudity, gay rights and secularism being irrelevant to a...