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September 2012

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Ahh my tumblr famous followers (and my not so famous followers)

whoweretheqajars:

Ajam Media Collective launched its tumblr a couple weeks ago—can y’all help me get the word out? Follow them, reblog them, anything! Just so that people can learn about this really awesome resource on the net. 

The Ajam Media Collective is an online space devoted to documenting and analyzing cultural, social, and political trends in the diverse Iranian, Central Asian, and diaspora communities. We unite authors from various backgrounds and disciplines to promote diverse critical views of the region and seek to emphasize the region’s importance as a thriving cultural center whose multiple realities are too often obscured by the popular Western and global media.

Soooooooo…can you all follow AjamMC? Please pretty please thanks!

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#signal boosting #awesome #media representation #media
“[R]ace, gender, and sexual stereotypes intertwine in different ways. Thus, African American men are stereotyped as hypermasculine and oversexed, and African American women as promiscuous, bad mothers, and nurturing ‘mammies’ who care for everyone else, but not their own children.. Latinos are stereotyped as ‘macho’, and like African American men, sexually passionate, but out of control. Latinas are stereotyped as either ‘hot’ or virgin-like. Similarly, white women are sexually stereotyped in dichotomous terms as ‘madonnas’ or ‘whores’. Working-class women are more likely to be seen as ‘sluts’ and upper-class women as frigid and cold.” —Margaret L. Andersen and Patricia Hill Collins, “Systems of Power and Inequality” (via wretchedoftheearth)
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This Is What A Gender Neutral Toy Store Looks Like (Thanks Harrods) → themarysue.com

dancing-with-diversity:

Harrods Department Store is a British institution that’s just as much a tourist spot as any other historical landmark in London. This past week they made history by opening their first gender-neutral toy department. It was designed by London and Singapore-based interior architects Shed and has been dubbed Toy Kingdom. Everything in Toy Kingdom is grouped by theme, not gender: enchanted forest, miniature toy world, a reading room, a circus area, and a candy store. Take a peek inside and see how easy it would be for other stores to adopt.

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Republicans to teachers:
  • No, you can't have money for your schools.
  • No, you can't have scholarships to train new teachers.
  • No, you can't have pay raises to attract talented people to the profession.
  • No, you can't teach cutting edge science and history because its got a "liberal bias."
  • No, you can't have decent retirement or health benefits.
  • No, you can't have unions that fight for your rights.
  • No, you can't open a new school to lower class sizes.
  • No, you can't have busing to allow for diverse school populations and increased opportunity for everyone.
  • What? What do you mean your kids aren't passing? You must be a shit teacher.
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“Depression is not selfish. Anxiety is not rude. Schizophrenia is not wrong. Mental illness isn’t self-centered, any more than a broken leg or the flu is self-centered. If your mental illness makes you feel guilty, review the definition of “illness” and try to treat yourself with the same respect and concern you would show to a cancer patient or a person with pneumonia.” —(via goldenphoenixgirl)
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#mental illness #depression #anxiety #cut #cuts #cutter #schizophrenia #did #split personality #rape #ptsd
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when you try to argue that this is porn:

but that this is not:

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#how much do you get paid to carry water for your own oppression?
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People who will die in the revolution: Tumblr edition

eshusplayground:

Inspired by this video.

So, dear followers, have at it: who are the people on Tumblr who will die in the revolution?

  • Everybody who has hit 3 or more squares on the Racism Bingo card (see Google) in one discussion … will die in the revolution.
  • People who say “It’s just a movie/TV show/game/comic book!” … will die in the revolution.
  • Anyone who brings up Black people to make a point about something other than racism … will die in the revolution
  • People who hate a character or ship and tag their hate posts with the name of that character or ship … will die in the revolution
  • Everyone who worries more about “Die cis scum” than about dead trans* people … will die in the revolution.
  • Anybody who makes any commentary about how Black women need to fix ourselves … will die in the revolution.
  • People who mention Lana Parrilla being half-Italian without bringing up the Puerto Rican half … will die in the revolution.
  • Everyone who says, “I’m not *-ist but” … will die in the revolution.
  • Any media person who asks an actress about her clothes, her diet, her workout regimen, or her love life instead of about her work … will die in the revolution.

Who’s on your list?

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Amazon tribe massacre alleged in Venezuela → whitewolfpack.com

psychowolf:

Massacre of Yanomami Feared in Venezuela

Village of 80 people was firebombed from the air, say activists, by illegal gold miners based in neighbouring Brazil

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When To Kill Your Characters

writeworld:

fuckyeahcharacterdevelopment:

The age old question that got more complicated when we expanded our genres past ‘comedy’ and ‘tragedy’. 

Here are a few general guidelines for main characters: 

  • Do you plan on your character staying dead? 
  • Have or are you setting a precedent of Anyone Can Die for your story?  
  • Is it realistic that your character would die under these circumstances? (ex., an untreated battle wound becomes infected = a good dose of realism in a medieval setting).
  • Is this character developed enough for the audience to care that they die?
  • Conversely, does everyone in the audience hate this character (and it’s treated as a party)?

  Yes?
           —> Kill them.
 

  •  Is your character death in some way not final (Joey falls off a cliff, but was saved by a passing benevolent eagle- not that anyone knew until the next book!) that feels trite or cheap? 
  • Was this character slated for death from the start, and lacked development/roundness as a result?
  • Did you just really hate your assignment and wanted to end it with a bang?
  • Do you not have a solid grip on your audiences feelings towards that character (ex., you meant them to be sad, and the others are crying… while your reader cackles)? 

   Yes? 
          —> Spare them, or take it back to the drawing board and rework.  

(As always, know the rules so that you can break them).
    -Evvy
     FYCD

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The life and times of Occupy Wall Street | International Socialism Journal → isj.org.uk

socialismartnature:

Though a few months old, this article is still extremely useful in drawing up a sober assessment of the explosive growth and subsequent ebb of the Occupy movement — including its implications for future organizing …

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 … Today the future direction—and even the existence—of the Occupy movement, as such, is an open question. If activists and the left are to learn from this last wave of struggle, it is important to take this opportunity to assess the experience of the last eight months and the debates that have emerged. Most analysis of the Occupy movement has overwhelmingly centred on what are seen as its unique organisational and tactical forms. Many commentators and participants have focused on the way in which Occupy arose outside of the traditional forms of the left, movement organisations and the unions. They look for an explanation of its dizzying success in its tactical audacity, its rejection of hierarchical structures and its independence from existing organisations, which are seen as bureaucratic and ossified.

This article will argue that such a focus is too narrow to adequately understand the dramatic rise of the movement. Moreover, this focus on the “new” leaves us ill-equipped to understand the challenges facing us today and how to move forward. In reality, the picture is much more complex than the dominant narrative of the movement admits.

 … Regardless of the initial reasons for the explosion of the movement, it tells us little about how to move it forward now. OWS tapped into a deep vein of accumulated bitterness and discontent in the US. But as a movement, it far exceeded the existing organisational and political capacity of the working class. That class has been in retreat for 35 years and suffers the scars of defeat and demoralisation. The monumental events of 2011, from the Egyptian Revolution to the occupation of the Capitol in Madison to OWS, all began a process of reversing that tide. But it is precisely that—a process, which will advance spectacularly at times, suffer defeats at others and need to consolidate its forces.

It is unclear in what way the Occupy movement will revive or even whether, in its current form, it can. But it has fundamentally altered the landscape of American politics and exposed the fault lines of class anger. In that sense, it has made a contribution to the rebuilding of working class confidence, organisation and militancy. There is no shortage of issues around which to organise. And certainly the continuing assault of the ruling class in this country guarantees new upheavals. Recently the struggle for justice for Trayvon Martin—an unarmed black teenager murdered by a racist vigilante—has played a role in galvanising an emerging anti-racist movement. In May as many as 10,000 protesters marched against the NATO summit in Chicago. And as of this writing, the 32,000 members of the Chicago Teachers’ Union are preparing for a potential strike in the autumn. These struggles may not flow through the structures of the Occupy movement. But they are part of the same dynamic that gave rise to it. The most important contribution that those on the existing left and those inspired by the movement can make is to draw the lessons of the most recent wave of struggle and help extend the organisation of this resistance in all directions possible.

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“As Mia Mingus so aptly put, “To me, femme must include ending ableism, white supremacy, heterosexism, the gender binary, economic exploitation, sexual violence, population control, male supremacy, war and militarization, and ownership of children and land.” And I can do this in pink. I explain this all because I want you to know that I am on purpose. We are all different, but we have agency and are on purpose. I am femme on purpose.” —Kim Crosby   (via queerfatfemme)
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from the chatlog: an all-porn-is-bad fail

so, this came in today:

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a) why do people even pretend to give a shit about someone’s well being when it’s obvious that they don’t really give a shit at all?  seriously.  what, is pretending to give a shit about me somehow going to make me more likely to grant you your shitty request?  especially given that you’ve already arrived at the conclusion that I’m somehow fucked up / wrong beyond repair / amoral / blahblahfuckingblah ?

b) porn is bad? really? so, all porn?  or is sex bad?  really?  all sex?  or is sex / porn just somehow bad in some way that it ruins very serious conversations?  whatever.  I’m about sick up to my eyeballs with people allegedly caring about equality of human existence but all the while gobbling up and regurgitating the same sex-shame religious horseshit as if it’s somehow real. 

sex-shame is a tool of patriarchy / kyriarchy / organized religion / classism / sexism / corporatocracy. 

sex-shame places human bodies and genitals as bad, wrong, shameful.  that belief (and it is a belief) doesn’t come from nature.  in other words, it is not a fact.  it has a staggering lack of facts to support it.  no physics.  no math.  no cellular proof.  no reproducible data whatsoever.  the only place it comes from is opinion and the source of those opinions always fall back on two places: personal preference and the dogma of holy men.

so, if you have a personal preference for sex-shame, then you have every right to be ashamed of your body.  if you feel that sex is dirty and bad and your genitals are wrong in any way, then you have every right to feel that way about yourself. 

if you don’t want to see anybody else’s genitals or sex - then it’s not up to those people to hide their genitals from you - it’s up to you to not look at their genitals.  other people are not responsible for your feelings and you are not responsible for theirs. 

regarding the other source of sex-shame, if you want me to do anything based on the mythology of a holy man, go fuck yourself in any way that you see fit.

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TW: Abuse, trauma

fysexeducationquestions:

Anon: I was wondering how ‘insignificant’ a traumatic experience could be and still cause involuntary physical reactions? I was never really ‘abused’ (at least, not how I view it), but I did put myself into situations that made me less than comfortable. I’ve been told by both my gyno and massage therapist that my body responds physically in a similar way as someone who has been sexually abused, and I often have trouble relaxing enough to have sex. (It’s hard to fit more details here)


FYSE: no such thing as insignificant when it comes to trauma. I’m the same way, and for a long time I felt guilty because abuse is very common in my family and I didn’t feel like I had gone through enough trauma to warrant that reaction when members of my family had been through what I felt was so much worse. Everyone reacts to trauma differently. Some people can go through what you may feel the worst trauma an abuse ever and be totally fine and recover really quickly or not need any time to recover at all. Some of us go through things we think of as minor and have things that can take a lot of time to recover from (like with Vaginismus which I believe is what you’re talking about). Try not to measure up your trauma to anyone else’s, just focus on recovering and feeling better. Luckily with things like Vaginismus (which I have as well, mostly because of my fibromyalgia), or anxiety disorders (which I think mine are part of my trauma) are treatable. They do take time and effort and they aren’t easy but there are a lot of communities that offer support.

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Auction Cancelled, Yet the Land is Still for Sale: The Struggle for Lakota Sacred Land Continues (This is a Self Post, I Don't Care About Karma One Whit...just want to say something) : politics → reddit.com

adailyriot:

The end of the Pe’ Sla auction is not the end of the struggle. The land is STILL publicly listed for sale and so could still be bought by developers unless the Lakota can get the money together quickly.

Rumors/Misinformation going round serve to muddy the issue:

1.) ‘The Natives’ land was stolen long ago, so who cares?’

The fact is that the Supreme Court admitted in “United States vs. Sioux Nation of Indians” court case (1980) that the land was ‘illegally seized territory’. According to our own RECENT laws, the land is considered stolen. That cannot be said for a lot of places in the US.

In referring to the 1980 case, some believe that the Lakota ought to

2.) ‘Just accept the $106 million awarded in that court proceeding and use it to buy Black Hills/Pe’ Sla’

That is not possible. If the Lakota accept that money, which is explicitly marked as ‘compensation’, then the Lakota would have to give up all claims to Pe’ Sla/Black Hills.

The same goes for the ‘1 billion dollars’ that people may tell you that the Lakota have on hand. What they are referring to is a court case in which one ‘Mario Gonzalez’ filed a lawsuit asking for the land of Black Hills and $11 billion in damages. Mr. Gonzalez said that he would give $1 billion dollars to the Lakota in order to alleviate their poverty and use $10 billion dollars to remove nonrenewable resources from Black Hills.

It’s the same thing. If the Lakota took the billion, then they would have to give up the land which they see as Sacred and watch it be carved up and developed to feed various industrial interests.

3.) ‘If the Lakota are so poverty-stricken, then why don’t they take the money and give up Pe’ Sla?’

I understand how easy it is to think this way, but you must look at if from the other side. Buddists, would you abandon your path for piles of fine clothes and jewelry? Christians: if someone told you that you could move out of your shack and into a mansion where you would be fed a seven-course meal every day, would you give up Jesus in exchange and never say another prayer? Humans are not just calculators, they have a heart. There are things more important to many humans around the world than simple financial security.

4.) ‘So why don’t they just get the money from the casinos they have?’

The Lakota in question do not have casinos — as was mentioned, they are poverty stricken. There are more than 500 Native tribes in the US, as well as at least seven different tribes of Sioux to begin with. To just assume that the Pe’ Sla Lakota have such resources available to them is incorrect.

5.) ‘Development is nothing new, it goes on all the time. Why is it such a big deal?’

This question fails to acknowledge four things that are unique and that serve to raise the non-monetary value of this land in particular:

a.) The Lakota consider it a part of their creation story. A significant part of Traditional Lakota culture depends on the prayers and rituals made at Pe’ Sla on a regular basis. It would be like paving over the ‘Wailing Wall’ in Israel, parceling out pieces of ‘Sagrada Familia’ or turning ‘Uluru (Ayers Rock)’ into an amusement park. If you respect the beliefs of another, then you do not do these things. To sell the land to developers would be infringing on the Lakota’s religious freedoms, especially when one considers the State of South Dakota’s intent to put a roadway right through Pe’ Sla.

b.) The land is pristine. Few places on this planet are left that are still pristine, which is why some would prefer to make Pe’ Sla a natural preserve (something which the Lakota would be thrilled to hear).

c.) Black Hills contains ranches that belong to the homestead era of US history. It is ripe to become a living history museum. Turning Black Hills into a historic site would also be agreeable to the Lakota and wouldn’t interfere in their worshiping there.

d.) Any attempts to open a gold mine in the area or put a Keystone XL pipeline in the area (which could endanger sources of local fresh water) are likely to cause more problems for all the communities in the area than they would solve. Yet these are amongst the main interests that would be sure to buy the land.

TL;DR:

  • The Supreme Court already admitted that the land was seized illegally.
  • Environmental concerns surround those that would develop the Black Hills
  • Pe’ Sla/Black Hills has a kind of ‘non-monetary’ value that cannot be replaced

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#this message is coming to you from the past
Oh Mitt, saying that the best feeling I had about Obama was when I voted for him.

mykicks:

The best feeling I had about Obama was when he signed a law expanding health care coverage to millions of Americans.

The best feeling I had about Obama was when he helped make sure that everyone brave enough to serve in the military can do so openly.

The best feeling I had about Obama was when he said that everyone should be able to marry whomever they love.

I barely remember the act of voting for him now.

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An empty chair. Less Clint Eastwood's metaphor for president Obama and more the Republican party's metaphor for black people.
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#Native American #Aborginal #Native Women #Aborginal women #missing person
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